Here's how it works.
On my counter is a small bowl of macaroni noodles and a bud vase.
The first Sunday of every month the noodles in the bud vase are counted and divided equally amongst the kids. It's collective. This way they encourage each other to make good choices and are excited for each others good achievements.
They earn a nickel for every noodle. The noodles go back in the bowl and they start over.
What's nice? The pay out is never huge but it's always enough to please even my 9 year old.
They like trying to earn more noodles then they had in the previous month. They are always proud of themselves as the number of noodles directly reflects their actions and behavior.
There are times when Bailey comes to me and says "I love you mom. Noodle?" To which I always reply "of course". Hey, I'm not going to question the motives behind niceness, goodness, and helpfulness. I just need them to happen.
what a great idea!
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